Well ladies, this is it, this is our year. Do you feel it? Are your female friends talking about how this year they are going to focus on themselves? That finally they are going to value who they are, do what they need to do for themselves to be happy and complete? Yeah, that feminine energy is in full expression and doesn’t it feel great!

It has taken a few milennia to get here, but we have finally made it. The next stage of human evolution is upon us. The time has come for us to develop and become our true selves – balanced and complete beings expressing our feminine nature. And not a moment too soon either. We need it, our world needs it, our children and our men need it!

So, you may be wondering what our true feminine nature is. Is it being ‘superwoman’ ? Not at all! Is it time to burn our bras again and this time for good? Nope. Is it loving, giving, supporting, and nuturing until we are exhausted and empty and then going in for round 2? Absolutely not! All these represent feminity out of balance or our overdeveloped masculine side.

Being in balanced feminine energy is being full of power that is creative, wise, discerning, receiving, guiding, passionate, playful and sensual. It is filling our cup first with all that we need so we can be this power for ourselves and others. It is also creating boundries that help us stay in this power at all times and prevent us from giving it away. It is being in love with ourselves and life, and radiating that to everyone we meet. Can you feel that energy?

Just drop me in a tub full of it and let me soak it up!

Filling ourselves with our natural power is easier and more fun than you may think:

Choose to make youself happy and whole. Hoping someone else will do this for you is a lost cause. Only you can do this for yourself. When you turn to another to make you happy you are essentially saying you are unable to stand as yourself and need someone elses energy to fill in the empty spaces to give you value. You aleady have value, all that is needed is for you to recognize it.

Take time for yourself. If you are empty, then you have nothing to give, to yourself or to others. Everyday, do something that gives you pleasure, that energizes you. Listen to your favorite song and dance your heart out. Sing along with your favorite song with all your passion. Go for a walk in nature (forrest, beach, mountains, open fields) and breathe. Let nature’s energy fill you. Write, read, paint, draw. You get the idea.

Follow your passions. What do you like to do? What have you always wanted to do or learn but never got around to? Now is the time. Take a class, join a group, volunteer, learn on your own, or start a group. If you don’t know what your passions are, think back to when you were little, what did you love doing or want to be when you got older?

Be creative. Use your hands, your imagination. It can be anything and it doesn’t have to cost a cent. You don’t even have to be good at it. All it has to do is make you happy. If you loose track of time when you are creating, you are on the right path.

Let go. Let go of all you can that takes your energy away. Become flexible. All those rules we create of what needs to be done and how, only add stress and takes energy. Flexiblity give us room to breathe and gives magic and miracles the opportunity to act in our lives.

Let your partner be who he is, you are not going to change him nor are you supposed to. Accept his ways as being different from yours, he isn’t you! Give your partner the opportunity to do what he does best – give, provide, love and protect. You can’t receive when you are doing everything.

Open yourself to receiving all you deserve, because you deserve it. For things to come to you have to let them in. You also have to create a space for them in your life, so clear out what you don’t need – physically, mentally and emotionally.

Hope these tips help you become more of who you are – a georgeous, wonderful, loving woman!

May you give with a warm heart and receive with joy and gratitude,

Dora